Monday, July 21, 2014

The Great Give

Truth Stones

Prayer stones/Truth stones are small reminders that can be kept with you throughout the day to inspire change, challenge false beliefs, or simply encourage a more positive outlook during the course of the day. Each of these stones were handmade and completely unique. We are asking for a minimum of a five dollar donation to receive your choice of prayer stone (you can obviously donate more to The Great Give if you feel called to do so). Please email truthstones@gmail.com if you are interested in purchasing one of these stones and making a donation to The Great Give.



'Breathe in peace. Breathe out stress.'

'Do Good'


'Fresh and New'

'Fun'


'Joy'



'Simply Shine'

'You will soar'

'You will fly'


'Loyal'


'Cherish'


'Deeply Loved'

'Have Compassion'


'Genuine'




Why We Support Dove Harbor

A Place of Hope

I came to Anderson in 2009 in a truly broken place. I was ready to begin a new chapter in my life.  There was a tugging in my heart that I was going to have to make big life changes. I resolved that the unhealthy patterns passed down to me from my parents, and their parents before them would stop with me. I needed a place that would help me carry out that resolution. I knew God was going to have to be in it, wherever I landed. It was by Gods grace that there was a space for me at Dove Harbor. With reluctance and hope, I let go of my past  life and everything familiar to let God start to take hold of my future. I have people ask me how long I was a resident at Dove Harbor. My answer is always, “a blessed amount of time." I came into Dove Harbor with nothing. I remember being asked on day one what my practical needs were. Walking into a room with a basket full of cleaning supplies, towels, sheets, toiletries, etc. was almost overwhelming for me. I couldn’t remember being cared for in that way in many years. During my time at the Harbor, I learned about relationships. Though it took awhile for me to start to trust, I eventually built healthy bonds with the other women and staff. I am so thankful God sets the lonely in families, because now I have a bunch of sisters from all walks of life. It was key for my journey to have the dove harbor staff be safe people that I could rely on. I was loved and respected for just being me. There was no need for the perfection or performance that would have been my lifeline with past relationships. One of the true tests of gaining true healthy relationships came with being paired up with a “mentor.” This is still one of my most precious relationships over the last couple of years. I know that the DH staff prays over each mentor match. God was in complete control of pairing us together. We discuss regularly how God has uniquely woven our lives together. Prayer, meals, coffee, books, crochet, good conversation, and so much more, make this relationship special. I believe we were one of the first mentor relationships and because we both love the Lord, it will be one that is eternal. For someone who has never heard of Dove Harbor, I would say this… It is a place that provides for women practically, spiritually, and emotionally on a personal level. It’s a place where Gods grace meets broken souls. It is the place where I gained independence with a safety net of guidance. It is a haven and a safe place to heal on all levels. 


My Safe Haven

I am a quiet and timid person. I am the type of person who is very private. That being said I feel lead to share part of my story. A month before I graduated college I went through some really horrible things. I withdrew myself from everything important in my life and hid.  Jennifer Wilson, a wonderful lady I hardly knew, who would later become my mentor invited me to her house to talk. In her backyard, completely broken, I listened to some of her story, and was able to let some of my guard down and let her know I was in a really bad place. I had no support or family who could help me, so she suggested that I apply to Dove Harbor, and I reluctantly did. For the short time I was there I was safe, and safety was something that I did not understand. I learned what safety looked like. Safety is not just physical, but it is something that is built on trust, and I began to believe in trust. I made many mistakes and expected the staff to turn their backs on me, but that never happened. If I had not gone to Dove Harbor I know that I would have given up on life. Dove Harbor helps women from many different walks of life, and I am so incredibly blessed to be in a place to pay it forward. 


For More Information on Dove Harbor and The Great Give please check out the links below:

The Great Give

The Great Give  

Dove Harbor